Some forums can only be seen by registered members. View detailed profile Advanced or search site with Search Forums Advanced. Hi Everyone! I'm thinking about moving to Boston because I'm very unhappy with my life in LA.
I'm 29, attractive, and I want to meet a guy who is looking for something serious and is ready to settle down.
I'm considering San Francisco too but recently a lot of people have told me that things can be pretty tough there too. I've been to Boston a couple times and liked it a lot but I've never lived there. I want to be in a place that is more sophisticated and I want to be surrounded by interesting, warm, well-educated people who aren't flaky and who know what they want out of life. What is the dating scene like in Boston? I've always lived in big cities and I know that dating can sometimes be difficult there.
Thank you!! Dating is just as tough here.
Just look at the Census statistics from year There are higher percentage of women in MA than in CA. They did not take into if the women are pretty or not. That could skew the statistic dramatically as pretty ones get 10X more attention.
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Some may say CA women are prettier so you will have much less competition here. You know what they say. The good ones are already taken. NY'er lost in MA. Boston is the largest college city in the world. Tons of year old immature guys.
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Try online dating instead of moving cross country. FYI, i am an attractive, usually-considered-to-be funny, educated, traveled, etc guy in Denver Culturally; New England is more 'conservative' then California in the areas of relationships and stability. They do not call Los Angeles La La land for nothing. These days dating everywhere is just plain weird-complicated and frustrating.
Men today are more selfish and unfeeling then ever, and women more independent- so on that alone you can see why problems develop. Seems compromise is something many fail to do these days.
In New England however people are less 'flaky' with more depth and are more willing to make a commitment. There is much less of a 'car culture' here and people are less materialistic. Boston can be rough dating because it has a lot of college students.
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It will still be better than being further out in the suburbs, although you may find someone who is more looking to "settle" in the suburbs. I'm a male, 27 and single and find dating really difficult, although i think it can be difficult anywhere. Some of it i find girls around Boston can be snobby and don't have a good sense of humor at least not during first impressions. Most of my friends completely agree with my assessment. Also if you live outside metro Boston area i live about 45 minutes away without trafficpeople get turned off because they consider that too far.
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I was in L. I found a lot of people to be nice, but more about status. Austin, TX i found to be really nice and easy to talk to people, but might city might not be big enough for you. There are quite a few decent to medium-sized cities that might suit you well depending on what your looking for. Boston boys.
People in New England are not "warm". Boston boys are hard to catch. They are extremely guarded, so it may take time for them to let you in. They look at guys with a 'what can you offer me? Yes, a very selfish way of life, but you must provide something of value.
Friendship with benefits is different however. I never worry about my boyfriend going out to the bars with his buddies. What are they gonna do, strike up a conversation with the waitress and bring her home?
Yea, right. If it were easy, the world would be over populated.
Life's a journay, not a destination — respect the dating process. Originally Posted by DanielleLA. Ditto to what everyone above said.
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If you don't want to ever get a date again, move to Boston. This is a perfect place to never meet anybody or ever get a date. However, if you ask for directions, we'll all be happy to help! Want a date? Go to Miami. Those people can't their hands off each other for a minute! Last edited by ctrres; at PM. Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum.
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