But some of the people behind these conservative apps think liberals who refuse to date conservatives are doing something more destructive than looking for partners who share their values. To them, it amounts to anti-conservative discrimination.
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Earlier this year, Politico magazine documented the dating trials of millennial Trump staffersmany of whom claimed that supporting the president makes them outcasts — even in Washington, DC. A survey by OkCupid found that 74 percent of its users considered voting for Trump a deal breaker. For Moreno, this all amounts to anti-conservative discrimination, which she said has intensified under Trump. And thus, Donald Daters was born. The app launched in October and immediately made headlines, not for its premise but for exposing user information — including names, profile pictures, and, in some cases, private messages — in an open database.
Users get 25 free swipes each day and have to pay for subsequent credits, which can be used to send messages and get more swipes. Platforms like Donald Daters make sense in coastal cities like New York and Los Angeles, where a majority of voters lean blue and where, as a result, conservatives may feel alienated. Conservatives Only, one of the more established platforms, launched during the Obama administration.
Then came TrumpSingles, which was released just a few months before the presidential election and which, according to founder David Goss, gained more than 52, members after Trump was inaugurated. And Righter, the newest of the bunch, was released in December. Righter takes a different approach than Donald Daters, which Moreno told me is open to people of all political affiliations — even liberals.
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Of course men wanted her, but not men that shared her values. Stephanie Coontz, a professor of history and family studies at Evergreen State College, told me this is a relatively recent development. Coontz partially attributed this phenomenon to an increase in political polarization, but also explained how the concept of what a relationship should be — and what a potential partner should bring to the table — has changed over time.
In colonial days, when marriage was the most important financial and work decision you would make in your life, those values tended to revolve around that. Will this person bring a good dowry?
Women took care of not just the home, but also moral issues and religious issues. But then things changed.
Given all of this, it makes perfect sense that modern daters want to find partners whose political opinions align with their own. Josh, a year-old from New York who asked to be referred to by his first name, ed up for Patrio to find potential dates with similar interests and values.
Righter, meanwhile, is built on the premise that conservatives should only date conservatives. This mentality is clear on Righter, where men are encouraged to make the first move and pay for the first date.
It makes sense that people want to find dates who share their values, whether that means voting for a certain political party or refusing to deviate from strict gender roles. If you want to date a blonde, date a blonde. If you want to date a skinny person, date a skinny person.
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