Show Thre Show Posts. Go to Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. View detailed profile Advanced or search site with Search Forums Advanced. Mountainbluebear Lol. Most Asian guys are open to dating white women, but still prefer to date Asian women.
Trust me, I'm an Asian guy. Actually a lot of men of all races are really into Asian women. And in Hawaii, an unusually high percent of the Asian women also prefer dating Asian men.
For everyone who says they haven't experienced or seen racism against whites in Hawaii, that's good to hear. While most Hawaii residents are not racist, racism is still an issue. Try searching keywords like "racist," "racial," and "white. And I've never heard of anywhere in Hawaii that gives people preferential treatment just for being white. I think some of the comments are extreme and exaggerated, but not made up. Seriously want to move to Hawaii. Jonny08 Aloha, now racism and ignorent people live everywhere.
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I believe an explanation is in order. Are people from Hawai'i like the KKK racist where it dosnt matter if your white your s. Or Is it, not because your white but we just don't like the stereotypical attitudes that white mainlanders have? Which is an attitude issue not a racist one correct? I agree that total blanket attitudes towards whites is not ok, because i know some whites who are more kanaka then some natives are.
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Its too bad that current attitudes towards whites may also be a backlash from perceptions of experiences of the past. The vast majority of Hawaii residents are nothing like the KKK. But a small minority have no problem with voicing their dislike for whites or going out of their way to treat whites badly.
Clearly, some instances of racism are due to a general dislike for whites or labeling all whites as fitting certain negative stereotypes. Originally Posted by Jonny I have definitely noticed that Asian-American men have it better in Hawaii. Over half the Asian women I see in California who are in relationships are dating non-Asian men. I know many Asian women in Hawaii who have only dated Asians and say they would never date a white guy, while in California, the strong majority of Asian women would at least consider dating a white guy.
Nightclubs that give preferential treatment to Asians- I've been to both of these places and have seen it happen. From what I've seen, it's like that throughout the country. Some areas such as the bay area might not be as bad but generally speaking being an Asian male, in oppose to a white male, is a disadvantage when it comes to dating everywhere in the country except Hawaii.
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Originally Posted by CuriousKapono I slightly disagree. With the wide range of magazines and movies that women here in Hawaii are exposed to, more and more are dating white guys, black guys and putting aside local Asian or FOB-type of Asian males. I would see local Asian girls viewing GQ magazines and other media, looking at pictures of Johny Depp, and other hollywood stars. Unfortunately, you have wahines from the mainland who bring their negative stereotypes about Asian men to Hawaii.
Last edited by Jonny08; at AM. Jonny08, The reason why certain nightclubs give preference for the locals, and even Asian males, is because the white males, and even black guys go to the nightclub, get drunk, and start fights. I haven't seen it happen here in Hawaii.
But I have been to two nightclubs in the NYC area in the past, and puerto ricans and black guys would come into the nightclub, try to taunt other males of other racial backgrounds, and instigate fights. This is why a Korean nightclub in the NYC area barred a black guy from going into their establishment, because some of them are known to get dating, harass other customers, start guy fights with the male counterparts.
The black dude ended up filing a "discrimination" lawsuit against the establishment Now getting back to Hawaii nightclubs, and why the bouncers no like some military white or black guys enter into their establishment, is due to a lot of them being rowdy, reaching their hands out and touching female okoles'. I would say that outside of Hawaii, places like the Bay Area and Seattle are best for Asian male in the dating pool.
Bay Area has a huge Chinese-American population. There is also a large Filipino and even Vietnamese enclaves in NorCal. I'd say Seattle is the best outside of Hawaii. I have lived and worked for a finance firm in Seattle, and although there were a few jerks I've encountered, the females there are Honolulu friendly.
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It's either white males who are preferred in the dating arena in SoCal. If not white males, it's black guys, or latino guys. My sister lives there, and although she grew up in Hawaii and went on her HS prom with a local Asian guy, she ended up marrying an Indian-hindu-american guy.
Unfortunately, after living in L. I agree that fighting and other inappropriate behavior contribute to it. When I went to nightclubs in Hawaii with Asian girls some of them specifically avoided being near white or black guys because they were scared of being grabbed from behind and grinded on lol.
Asian guys would at least ask before touching the girls. And some Waikiki nightclubs with lots of military guys or non-Asian tourist regularly have fights - Zanzabar for example. Although I'm not sure I agree with using race to decide who you let in or how much they have to pay.
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I believe that a major reason for that difference is in how Asian women and mainstream society view Asian and White men in California compared to in Hawaii. As others have said, in California, Asians are seen as foreign, feminine, nerdy, and passive, while Whites are considered more masculine. In contrast, in Hawaii, the negative stereotypes about Asians largely do not exist and it's the Whites who are considered to be outsiders and who have negative stereotypes associated with them such as being loud, rude, arrogant, and impatient.
Some of the "negative" associations about Asians are considered positive in Hawaii.
For example, in Hawaii anyone who isn't passive or obedient might be considered rude or overly loud. Whites in Hawaii also have to deal with various types of discrimination that has been discussed on numerous thre.
Quote: Originally Posted by Jonny08 Nightclubs that give preferential treatment to Asians- I've been to both of these places and have seen it happen. Quote: Originally Posted by CuriousKapono80 Jonny08, The reason why certain nightclubs give preference for the locals, and even Asian males, is because the white males, and even black guys go to the nightclub, get drunk, and start fights. Quote: Originally Posted by Jonny08 I agree that fighting and other inappropriate behavior contribute to it. City-Data Forum Message. Cancel Changes. Quick Reply.