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View detailed profile Advanced or search site with Search Forums Advanced. Larry Bowa. Originally Posted by branh From my experience, a lot of black women do not care to date black men who are good options. They would rather chase thugs and losers.
Even the so-called decent black women still settle with losers while screaming there are no good black men. Also from experience black women dont take black men who are successful seriously as a partner. Instead they are competitive and not cooperative. From my experience a lot of black women like black men to do worse than them so they can sustain control of the relationship. A lot of black women feel challenged if a black man is on an equal level or even at a higher level.
I heavily disagree with dating options amongst black women being bad. I just don't think black women know how to handle a black male who isn't a loser. Originally Posted by Larry Bowa. I sat with a professional black woman in the RTM a few months back who was from Pittsburgh, but living here now.
She told me the black men in this city are horrible and she only dates outside her race. Apparently, it's more common than I thought Originally Posted by cattusbabe. I travel quite a bit so tend to come in contact with people from all over. Maybe it is because my husband is white people are curious how we two got together and want to talk about our relationship. That can be annoying at times I must admit.
That has been especially true of black women be they AA or non-AA women. AA men have developed a pretty bad reputation when it comes to dating. It is not just a Philadelphia thing. They've built themselves quite the reputation. I do agree with what somebody stated on here that black guys will go for white girls because they're easier to handle than black women. I also agree that white girls tend to go for the black guys who appear to be "hip" or "street. I never noticed until now that I've never seen a black female software engineer.
In person I can't actually remember ever seeing a black female engineer either. By far most female software engineers I've seen are asian. Originally Posted by Raena Many hybrids are goodlooking. And yes latin men are sexy. Op Philly has many interracial relationships.
Some mighty fine Asian and Black men too. Oh my! Originally Posted by Lucario. Last edited by FindingZen; at PM. Location: Philadelphia, Pennsylvania.
Enough of the black guy bashing circle jerk. In center city where I work I see a ton of black male professionals.
I seem LESS black female professionals. Now that's purely anecdotal of course.
But despite black women being better degreed and educated than black males, black women actually are poorer and have lower salaries on average than black males. There are black males with higher positions on average than black women. Also, look at the ghetto, black women hang around the ghetto far longer than black men do. Most black men over 25 leave the ghetto, where black women are there long after Black women complain that there are no good black men, and I can tell you straight up that it's an excuse.
Black women don't want quality black men. Also on the socially awkward insult. It's funny, there are a lot of socially awkward white males put there too.
That doesn't really stop women from dating them. Most women find charm in a white male who is pretty square. It's society that expects the black male to be a super thug or super hip. Though I dont consider myself socially awkward. But I also don't center my conversations around what Beyonce and Jay-Z are doing either. Which is all black women tend to want to talk about. Originally Posted by MikeNigh.
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