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Lucia Brawley is a co-founder of amp. She is also the author of the Consenting to Lead Facebook group and a graduate of Harvard with a master's in acting from Yale.

She lives in Los Angeles with her husband and two daughters. Follow Lucia on Twitter luciabrawley. The opinions expressed in this commentary are hers. CNN This week, an anonymous accuser's of regretting what appears to be consensual oral sex with actor and comedian Aziz Ansari exploded into the media, with the words "sexual misconduct" splashed across television news, the internet and newspapers.

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More Videos Aziz Ansari responds to sexual assault accusation Lucia Brawley. Thepublished Saturday on Babe.

She wrote that during the evening he pressured her for sex, which she participated in, but he did not use force. She concludes, at the end of the piece, "I believe that I flirt taken advantage of by Aziz. As a society, we must take this incident -- appearing in the public consciousness during our MeToo moment -- as an opportunity to have some painful, nuanced conversations.

For example: Sexual assault and rape are never the victim's fault. But we cannot indiscriminately start destroying careers over consensual sexual activity, which based on her is what this case appears to be. When we do that, we trivialize the brave victims who are coming forward about actual sex crimes. After reading "Grace's" of her date with Ansaria male friend said to me, "It seems Brawley price of fame is that any date that goes south will now be posted on the net for public consumption, like a Yelp review. Consider that if men publicly shared details about bad sexual experiences with women, we would call them misogynist monsters.

Banfield slams Ansari accuser Brawley open letter Flirt what happened here? Despite his pronouncements of allegiance to the MeToo and TimesUp causes, it sounds as though Ansari willfully ignored his partner's nonverbal cues. However, it also sounds as if he ultimately did take no for an answer, and checked up on "Grace" with a text the next day.

When she replied that she felt violated, he responded with an apologysaying he had understood their encounter to have been consensual By herhowever uncomfortable she told Babe the encounter had made her, she did not stop him or leave his apartment when, she says, he performed oral sex on her. Nor did she resist or leave his apartment when he urged her to perform oral sex on him; by her own description, she complied twice. Ansari is not Harvey Weinstein. He's not even on the same planet.

We have to differentiate between the two if our MeToo movement is to succeed.

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If we don't, no one will take our valid claims seriously and things will get worse for women. He gave her white wine at his apartment; she tells Babe writer Katie Way that she would have preferred red. She could have told him that. She didn't, then blamed him. She could have said she didn't want to go home with him. She could have left his house at any point. It sounds from "Grace's" words as though they each had different expectations of the date: he, that they would have sex, she, that she might date a celebrity.

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Her flirt appears to have stemmed from disillusionment at their differing agendas. Tom Hanks not surprised by Weinstein claims Some of my female friends argue that Ansari had all the power in this scenario, that as a wealthy male celebrity he is a beneficiary of the patriarchy's privilege.

But Ansari's position is more complicated than that -- he is no shoo-in with the American patriarchy. As a man of color, he has overcome decades of racism to pave a way for leading men of South Asian descent in American entertainment. His accuser may not be giving him the benefit of the doubt as a man who has lifted up women writers and actors with his Netflix show "Master of None.

Brawley is apparently politically incorrect in some women's eyes to mention "Grace's" power as a young, desirable woman who admits to actively flirting with Ansari while she was on a date with someone else and inviting Ansari with her eyes until he asked her for her. That would be no excuse for Ansari to sexually assault her, but he did not.

Flirt can have very different perceptions of a situation even when sex isn't involved. Sex only blurs matters further, unless we make ourselves abundantly clear. From "Grace's" description, Ansari's Brawley sounds just tone-deaf, selfish, and boorish. But a woman like "Grace" has agency, too -- and she must use it if we are to overcome the so-called patriarchy.

Very often, we have much more power than we realize. To call "Grace" a victim is to trivialize victims and to diminish "Grace. Women are strong.

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Let us show it. We are playing into a narrative of fragility and helplessness when we say "yes" with our actions -- as "Grace" appears to have done -- when we mean "no. We need to allow ourselves to disappoint their desires. We can't blame them if we willingly acquiesce to their desires and regret it later. Here's why we have to keep talking about Aziz Ansari. We should think long and hard before asking men to see inside our hearts and minds to divine our true feelings.

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To count on such omniscience would only pave the way for greater ambiguity and subjectivity in our sexual relations. My husband and I send our girls to karate to learn how to say "no," and to fight back. We want them to not accommodate aggressive people, not take candy from strangers, to speak out and say "STOP" at the top of their lungs if someone is bothering them. It is painful even to have to say it, but we, as a society, have to teach our sons not to rape.

At the same time we have to teach our daughters confidence and self esteem so they can stand up for themselves and say "no" in every situation that makes them uncomfortable. It's We women must stop accommodating everyone all the time. As a flirt of sexual assault myself, I understand palpably the delicacy of sexual dynamics. But our culture will never evolve unless we all accept our responsibility for making changes that increase ability and conscious decision-making on all sides. That way, we will be able to distinguish more easily between consensual and nonconsensual sex.

Let us teach our daughters that sexuality is healthy. They should be clear and safe if they want to have sex, and clear and safe if they don't. Otherwise, we teach men and women that women are flirt be conquered. If a woman wants a man, she should tell him. If she wants to be "conquered," tell him. Don't make him guess or he may guess wrong with the next woman.

When Brawley means "yes," "yes" Brawley mean "no. Dave Chappelle recently said that in order for the MeToo movement to succeed, "You're going to have to accept a lot of imperfect allies. Dave Chappelle tells what he'd do as president If we reflexively guillotine every imperfect ally like Aziz Ansari without finding out his side of the story, we will have no allies left.

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There is a whole spectrum between a bumbling, clueless lover and alleged predators like Weinstein and Trump. If your date is being creepy, let him know, get out of Dodge, and be sure you teach your sons better one day. There was a line Brawley stood out to me in actress Lupita Nyong'o's chilling New York Times op-ed, in which she alleges narrowly escaping sexual assault at Weinstein's hands which Weinstein denies.

She describes a moment when, she says, he tried to coerce her into doing his vile bidding by calling her "stubborn. The women Weinstein attacked did nothing to deserve his alleged criminal predation. Ansari is a completely different story, but Nyong'o's injunction fits it too. It is alright to be stubborn in your own defense, no matter what the man says.

It's a requirement. Women must embrace our stubbornness, and not acquiesce unless we want flirt. Men must learn we're for real.