Recently, my best friend told me that a mutual acquaintance spotted a picture of my son and his wife on a swinger website. At first I discounted it.
Then I started noticing they were going out every Friday and Saturday night. My husband and I are both Christians.
Neither of us feel comfortable about the situation. What do you recommend we do? Dear Incredulous: Your son and his wife are adults.
But neither do you have to give tacit consent and foster their living a life you do not approve of by turning a blind eye. Check the website for yourself.
If what you heard is the gospel, it may be time your adult children made other living arrangements. She met a man on a dating site several years ago. I warned her he was a romance scammer, but she kept talking to him. She even sent him a few hundred dollars.
Lois lives on Social Security, but sometimes comes into small windfalls from a stimulus or the sale of items. She has been in a relationship with a man she lives with for several years. When I asked her how she would like it if he were doing the same thing, Lois told me she would stop. Now I see she is friends with three or four more strange men on Facebook! Does she like to pretend she is rich? We have warned Lois about this, yet she continues to do the same thing.
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What can I do? Dear Seeing Clearly: Lois is an adult. I am also on oxygen.
Dear Practical: To ask that question could be perceived as extremely insensitive. Attempt it only if you have the skills of a diplomat. Dear Abby: Parents told that their son and his wife are swingers.
Dear abby: parents told that their son and his wife are swingers
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